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Dresses and building up Self-confidence

by bekasummer

This summer has been a very interesting one, since I feel I’m re-adapting to life and re-building my self-confidence. Also my obsession for dresses is back ! I was able to find the perfect little white dress

“Believe in yourself and all that you are. Know that there is something inside you that is greater than any obstacle.” 

– Christian D. Larson
Zara Dress- Missoma Necklace- Céline Sunglasses- Treasure & Bond Hat- Whistles Backpack


I never actually had a white dress before, since I don’t wear white that often, but this dress was too pretty to pass by, one of the things I love is that it has pockets yes ! Pockets ! Which is super cool, it makes it more comfy and it’s casual but stylish at the same time, also it has shorts attached which is a plus since it is a mini dress. I’d say this kind of dress is the perfect dress for a summer day. 
I found this gem at Zara and I’ve seen similar dresses that retail for over 150dlls and this one was 29.99 on sale. I really like that I can find pieces like this at Zara and are super budget friendly and the quality is amazing and not only that they are also comfy which is a MUST to me since I don’t like buying something uncomfortable to wear.


Now that I think about it, It actually has been a while since I remember liking a dress so much, for a moment I thought my love for wearing dresses  was gone or in fact for style & fashion or anything like that. I have to admit that after the process I went through for the past 2 years now (concussion/brain injury). I had to put aside everything  and along with it my love for style there was no space or energy for it in my life
 due to all that I was going through, my life changed completely with therapies and doctor appointments and things like that and something that frighten me was the thought of losing my personality among other things but as time passes by I’ve learned that, it is like they say that we are stronger than we think and we are capable of doing things we never thought we could, I still can’t believe how far I’ve come and it makes me feel only more excited to see this new version of myself.


Having to start all over again, after the TBI has been a process a long one and not an easy one, with lots of ups and downs and changes lots of them too, emotionally and physically but at the same time its been an AMAZING one, since I’ve decided to focus on the good and take as much as I can to benefit myself, I’m still in the journey of learning to know myself, to love and accept myself, this new me. I’m grateful for all the good things that have come with it, which is ultimately what matters the most.


My lovelies don’t be afraid to go out to the world and wear your beautiful smile, be your own kind of beautiful, don’t be afraid to wear whatever you want and be what you always dreamed of. We can become whatever we want.

Lots of love Becca <3

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